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  1. cowboy4cowgirl

    cowboy4cowgirl Porn Star

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    How is the angle in my profile pic?
     
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  2. StrawberryCupcake

    StrawberryCupcake ⭐️Cheese Tease⭐️

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    Not very creative. Also a dick pic as your avi isn’t creative either.
     
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  3. NCfan

    NCfan Porn Star

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    I didn't know were be graded on creativity. I'll work with @deegenerate to improve my offerings.
     
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  4. Kenrychard

    Kenrychard Porn Star

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    35 years ago I had a very naughty cousin, stripper from that club just off Hollywood and Vine, The Cave I think. Anyway, she was a damn good "bedroom" photographer. I couldn't spell the French word. So she set me up for some pictures and I think she would agree with the original poster. Anyway, She picked the setting, a dark mahogony water bed with velour cover. My clothes, black martial arts pants and an open chest chinese pajama top that was too small and showed a lot of body. And then the position lighting and all the other details. But when I say position, well, she did very naughty things to herself to get me aroused, then sucked me until I was about to cum, and started shooting. UH the camera, not me. Anyway, she held onto the best of the photos. My next girlfriend then inherited them. And then my wife. Now ex. And I would post it with a disclaimer.. me 35 yrears ago not now, as an example of a great photo. But my ex wont let me have them. Yes, its a dick shot. But its also full body in a sexy setting. You can see my hard ass triathlete martial artist body, the LONG blonde hair, the ridiculous grin, and because I am only 5'2" and no one expects that, my 7.5 inch straight up cock centered in the picture actually looks a little closer to 9inches, most people see a reclining male as at least 5'9 to 6' so the perspective is fucked because I am short.
    Cock pictures are meaningless. They don't walk around by themselves, they have someone attached to them that actually matters MORE than the cock. You may not want your face up there, but please, be a person. especially your avatar. Like me, a Skyrim Orc slaying a dragon. At least that tells you I am a gamer of sorts LOL.
     
    1. submissively speaking
      I bet they’re great shots! I think the word you’re looking for is boudoir. :)
       
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  5. geileklodders

    geileklodders Proud cum player

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    As an addition to what te OP stated.

    • Make sure for good lighting.
    • Try different angles.
    • Make sure your dick is completely hard.
    • Consider spicing it up with a good cumshot (try filming it and take the right frame, or convert to a gif)
    • Let someone else take the pictures so you can concentrate on being hard and not on photography aspects. If that someone is a good photographer that will certainly help.
     
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  6. PrettyToes

    PrettyToes Newcumer

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    Well written and a very good topic of conversation. I am a 53 year old man that was sick of the dating sites so I decided to join Adult Friend Finders. I was appalled at the amount of men’s profiles that displayed photos of a hard cock for everyone and their brother to look at. They had no face photos, no body photos, no photos that would help to reinforce their written BIO which would describe what they have written with visual examples. Meaning, if you indicate in your bio that you enjoy skiing, then by god, how hard is it to simply include a photo of you skiing. Even a photo of your hard cock with skis and snow in the background is better than a photo of your cock above a toilet filled with yellow piss! Unfortunately, there are no photos necessary to enhance their words written in their bio because it only contains two sentences describing the size of their cocks and what kind of beer they drink. Even women who are out to just out to get laid don’t want a fat, disgusting, hairy, unbathed dirty man that reminds them of a fucking bigfoot, who not only misrepresented himself but insists in posting photos of his hard cock in front of a yellow piss-filled toilet,


    It seems to me today that most men do not want to put the effort that is needed when courting a woman and you better believe that every woman, whether they’re out for a fuck or a long term relationship desires to be courted in one manner or another. But most men just want to sit in their recliners with a beer in one hand and their cock in another, watching tv and periodically accessing their laptop to check their profile wondering why no females have messaged them. How much more effort does a man exert when he meets a female and asks her out on a date as opposed to the amount he puts in to meet them? It should be the same amount or more.


    I went on a date for the first time in over 25 years this past summer and let me tell you something, I put in a hell of a lot of effort to plan it, not out of love, excitement or the desire to get laid, but I out of self-dignity and self-respect, something that is fleeting among men these days.


    Let’s see, first I put much effort into the thought and planning of how we were going to spend our night together. I made reservations at the Chart House in Annapolis Maryland at the cost of $250 per plate, diligently picked out my attire, detailed my truck spending just over $450, got my hair cut, my finger and toenails manicured and pedicured, purchased her a nice arrangement of flowers, a tennis bracelet, a 12 pack of ‘claws’ and made reservations at a local museum in downtown Annapolis. My plan was that I would pick her up in my nice, recently cleaned truck, drive to the museum at 5pm visiting it for an hour, drive to make out 6pm dinner reservation, eat dinner, go downtown and get an ice cream while we walked and took in the sights, and drive to park in Baltimore ny the water. I had brought along my guitar, pillows and blankets to line and cushion the bed and we laid under the stars listening to the waves crashing against the bulkhead and I sareunited her with songs by Pink Floyd, Tom Petty, and Crosby, Nash and Stills. Needless to say the date went perfectly and she rewarded me for my efforts as I am sure that she noticed the amount of effort I exercised for us to have a pleasant, enjoyable time.


    PrettyToes

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    1. submissively speaking
      I’m sorry I missed this! The tag didn’t work. :(

      I think you’re articulating exactly what my point was, I’m totally picking up what you’re laying down here. :)
       
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  7. Bicio 83

    Bicio 83 Porn Star

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  8. Hard head

    Hard head Porno Junky

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    So spun dope gets me fucked up on ice and I was gonna cum twice 17105808269578690159571217749393.jpg 17105808414561314431086219537439.jpg
     
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  9. silkythighs

    silkythighs Porn Star

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    Some dick pics.

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    1. submissively speaking
      Unsolicited, even! :p
       
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  10. Cherrypop

    Cherrypop Wicked Kitten

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    I’m waiting for a man to make a thread helping women to take better pictures. I feel like that wouldn’t go over very well :p
     
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      Thank you that’s very kind ☺️
       
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  11. submissively speaking

    submissively speaking Sassochist

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    If men wanted to offer support or suggestions for photos that included something other than ‘show me your butthole’ I’d absolutely be interested in hearing it.
     
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      There’s no fight to be had here. You said you were waiting for something to be done, then said it was already done, so I’m not sure what the point was at all, really. I’m not agreeing with you, I don’t think? It’s hard to tell.

      What I think you’re trying to say is that men ought to have been offended by this thread - the way women might be - and good on them for not. If that is what the thrust is, then no. I don’t agree. These are not parallel situations at all.

      I thought it was polite to say so? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I’ll refrain from expressing appreciation the next time you bump one of my old threads.
       
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    3. Cherrypop
      Of course they’re parallel. I remember there was a similar thread by a dude but I can’t remember what it’s called and I don’t care enough to hunt it down. But it was full of us women getting annoyed at him. You included if I remember correctly. And rightly so.

      That was my point. In reverse we would not be pleased. That’s it, that’s all.

      And do you thank everyone who bumps your threads? That seems tedious. But you’re welcome …twice. ;)
       
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    4. submissively speaking
      It isn’t parallel. At all. Which is the point. I disagree.

      I don’t feel like providing a dissertation about the variance in societal expectations between men’s and women’s appearances, whether in person or in photography, and quite frankly am surprised I’d need to.

      I’ve no recollection of the thread you’re talking about, and without it there’s no comparison to draw. Not my fault, nor my problem.

      If someone was providing tips on how to take better spicy selfies, I’d read it with interest and I don’t think I’m alone. Finding ways to capture and present yourself in the way you want to be perceived is challenging at best.

      If someone was bitching because there weren’t enough butthole pics? Yeah I’d imagine he might catch some grief about it.
       
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    5. Cherrypop
      So a woman giving advice on men’s pictures is not the same as a man giving advice on women’s pictures? I’m not sure how “societal expectations” play into it, but we both agree women wouldn’t like it. You’re having a debate with yourself.

      If a dude (or woman) told me they were unimpressed with my tits and they looked “dull” from a downward angle, and I need to change positions, and clean up my room, I’d be pissed. Who asked? You get what you get. Unless it was Annie Leibovitz, of course. She can pose me any way she wants :p I’d rather they just appreciate my efforts in taking the pics and compliment or admire them.

      It’s very honourable that you’re being so helpful by trying to get all these men laid with fancy shmancy new dick pics though. I am sure it made all the difference and women were swooning left and right, and sex was had by all. :joyful:
       
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    6. submissively speaking
      :hilarious::hilarious::hilarious:

      I’m not debating myself, but this is like nailing jello to a tree.

      You have yourself an excellent night. ✌️
       
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  12. NonutsNoglory

    NonutsNoglory Sex Machine

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      I’m quite confused why you thought this belonged in this particular thread. Why do guys do this? That’s a good topic of discussion. A thread is moving right along properly and people are voicing their opinions or just responding to the thread. Then in comes some dude plastering dick sucking pics or like anal sex pics. It’s quite odd! No rhyme or reason to it really. lol
       
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  13. Sweetpassion

    Sweetpassion Pink gum drops.

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    The whole back story of why or how I got started in the whole taking erotic pics is my personal story. But this part I wanted to share because it does go along with this thread topic… well kinda sorta. lol I’ll just say that I was in a bad place mentally and I had zero self esteem. This didn’t happen recently. But I was chatting to this couple that happened to be photographers and I had no idea they were at first. He and his wife both were trying to give me positive encouragement to sorta come out of my shell. Maybe it was for their own benefit. But they seemed very concerned with how I was feeling. She was absolutely beautiful! I was thinking less than that about myself. They wanted to change that.

    Over a period of time. They encouraged me to put on something sexy and attempt to take an erotic pic. I thought, “how?” When I’m not feeling sexy at all? I listened to all their advice and eventually made an attempt. They were not negative and expressed how they thought I was attractive. Pointing out what they thought were my assets and taught me photography tips and skills. I was not at all offended by their advice and I listened to them. They taught me lighting skills and angles. Just all sorts of helpful information. It wasn’t negative critiquing or anything. Little by little I was feeling so much more confident and even felt kinda sexy. It was a drastic shift or change in how I had been feeling about my body image and my self esteem. Which was exactly what I needed in that moment.
     
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    1. submissively speaking
      Perfection, sweets. ❤️

      I think we’ve talked about how taking and sharing spicy photos is a wonderful source of external validation when maybe we’re needing a boost. It really can be healing. :inlove:

      There’s nothing more frustrating than feeling yourself, taking a quick snap and the results are … not what you were going for, and not knowing how to improve it.

      I want everyone to feel good about their content, including the guys. But not everyone knows how to make the best of the tools at hand, and I wanted to help a little with that.

      I’m kinda sad that so much of the thread has disappeared; remember when I posted it? We really got some good fun stuff.
       
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      That’s it! It was the boost I needed and if I wasn’t feeling myself. It would honestly be hard for me to even have a clue how to actually feel sexy and attractive. I could have gotten offended by them suggesting I try their techniques. As if the original picture I attempted to take was not to their liking. However, I didn’t and their willingness to try to teach me how to accentuate my features, assets and curves was giving. In turn it actually made me feel beautiful. Much how I first felt about her but not myself.
      This thread was a good conversational piece and it still can be. So props to you for creating it long ago.
       
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    3. submissively speaking
      I used self-portraiture to heal after a big break-up, and I shared them on tumblr. Ended up with a pretty hefty following, which came with its own troubles :D but when a pic would take off? Balm on my heart.

      I’m so glad you had a similar experience with creating images that you felt good about and that you had some good people help you with it. It can make a ton of difference. ❤️
       
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    4. Sweetpassion
      Happy for you too that that your experience felt freeing and good for you. I too had actually shared mine on another platform and had such positive feedback and also like you troubles and conflict. I think that kinda does go along with the territory. :laugh: Even though it was unexpected for me and overwhelming. Lol
       
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      I had both a straight and a porny tumblr; it was super uncomfortable when one of my straight writer buddies would love one of my spicy images. :O_o::eek1::D

      There’s always conflict no matter where you go. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Comes with the territory.
       
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